Real Swingers Quash The Most Common Misconceptions About Their Community
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Common Misconceptions About Members Of The Real Swingers Community
Society tells us that a ´proper´ relationship should involve only one woman and one man in a purely monogamous relationship. This has led to them being labeled as ´deviants´, ´sinful´ and other incorrect tags. As with most prejudices that have no real foundation other than hearsay, these misconceptions are easily dismissed.
1. Swingers are unable to maintain long-term committed relationships
The opposite is actually true. The core foundation of being in a swingers relationship is that you know that your partner will be indulging in swingers sex - under your watchful eye. If swingers wanted to have sex with others as a means of finding a new partner, they would not do it in the same social setting as their current partner. Couples who participate the swinglifestyle are in fact more likely to be happier in their relationships than ´normal´ couples who do not openly discuss and live out their fantasy world.
2. Women wouldn´t do it if not forced by their partners
Women are under no obligation to participate in swingers groups if they do not desire to do so. Everyone has the right to say no, even those who actively participate. Women often enjoy the swinger dating more than men, with an increased sense of self-confidence and attractiveness. Relationships with partners are often improved because women gain the self-confidence to ask for what they want in personal sexual relationships.
3. Because they are promiscuous, swingers catch more sexually transmitted diseases
Swingers are not desperate to get laid or youngsters who get drunk and throw caution to the wind under the influence of alcohol. The majority of real swingers are in long-term relationships with a vested interest in practicing safe sex. Swingers sex implies a responsibility to use protection. Even a swinger orgy does not necessarily mean penetration and if it does, most swingers use protection. There has never been any increased level of infections amongst real swingers documented which is directly linked to their lifestyle choices.
There are many more misconceptions bandied about, with these three being the most blatant ones that are repeatedly used. Swingers face the same pressures that beset couples outside of the real swingers community. They do however have the added advantage that there is generally a much less pronounced undercurrent of sexual dissatisfaction and frustration that is found in relationships outside of the real swingers community.