How To Approach Your Ex Partner
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If you want to get your ex back you will need to contact them to discuss the relationship and this isn’t always easy because it can feel very awkward. A lot of people get this wrong and end up scaring their ex away. You need to be subtle in your initial approach to them. First off it is better to give them space for a few weeks before you contact them.
This will hopefully be enough time for any ghosts and animosity between the two of you to pass over. The best way to make the original contact with them would either be a simple email or text message. People often miss or don’t read emails so I think a text message would be better. The problem with emails is that most people don’t check them as often as they check their phone, plus legitimate emails can be lost amongst spam emails.
Keep the message simple, just ask them how they are. If they reply then great, just see how things go and then eventually ask them if they would like to meet up for a catch up chat. If they don’t respond to your message then wait a day or two before sending another. If you send too many messages you will look needy and this isn’t attractive.
A lot of people will send a text message to their ex and if they don’t get an answer within the first hour send more messages. Once your ex finds the one solitary message from you on their phone it’s enough for them to realize that you want to speak to them. If on the other hand they find countless messages from you they will get the impression that you’re desperate.
If after a week you’ve sent a few message and your ex still hasn’t answered you need to make a phone call. This should be your last shot at trying to speak with your ex. If they still ignore you it’s time to take the hint that the relationship is over and it’s time to walk away. It’s an upsetting time to go through but sometimes there’s nothing you can do other than accept it.